The Farmer's Wife – A Monday Morning Conversation
It's Monday morning, so Jeannie should have some time to talk about a few things because she doesn't have to scramble to open the store.
"Good morning, Jeannie. How are you today? What's on your agenda besides laundry?"
Isn't it interesting how we discuss the work projects the guys are engaged in when we're closed on Mondays, but never the "mundane" tasks the farmer's wife needs to do to keep the family clean and fed?
"Fine, thanks," is her reply between breaths and banging.
"What are you doing?"
"Trying to change lightbulbs, but I need someone taller. Unless, I put my step ladder on the top of the stove."
"Don't do it, Jeannie! You've seen those memes showing why women live longer than men."
"Yeah, I have, but…" as we knowingly laugh in unison.
"By the way, tell Konstantijn I love the flower arrangement she gave me. We need to plant a flower garden for her next year. It's obvious she enjoys putting bouquets together and has a gift for it."
"Yes, we'll look through the catalogues this winter and plan a garden that will give K flowers all summer. I planted some small sunflowers for flower arrangements, but the guys herded the sheep over them. All gone now."
"That's sad."
"I know, but that's the way things go around here," Jeannie sighs.
"How's Marseilles?" (She had been feeling a little off for a couple of days.)
"Well, she came to me this morning and asked, 'Mommy, am I better?' I asked if she felt like eating some bread. She said, 'No. I want breakfast.' So, I guess she's better. I heard her talking to Mathijs later about having been sick and all the TV she watched. I think she's ready to go running around the farm again."
Moving on to discuss the frozen blueberry inventory, we run into another "guy" issue. We don't know what's in the walk-in freezer because a man needs to move pallets of frozen strawberries for us to see what's on the shelves.
Jeannie whips out a sticky note for the freezer door – PLEASE GET AN INVENTORY ON THE FROZEN BLUEBERRIES AND A BOX OF FROZEN CORN (we've been waiting for corn for a couple of months). Here's hoping the sticky note works, because we'd really like to serve more corn. And we need to know how many blueberries to freeze before the season is over.
Jeannie tells me that she has sticky notes all over to help "others" remember to do things, like fill the Berkey when they've taken the last glass full, close the door behind them when they leave the back room, and clean the soap dish after washing muddy hands – just little things.
A farmer's wife is like glue – holding things together while going unnoticed. What would we do without her?